I might be old fashioned...but I think you can tell a lot by the way someone kisses.
A bad kisser is a deal breaker for me. First of all I can't get past it....second if they suck at that.....well they probably suck at everything else. Can't coach em....can't win with em.
Oh, absolutely!! You can't coach them, but you CAN teach them if you can find a lip virgin. I taught a guy to kiss one time - it was a "Never Been Kissed" situation for him - nothing wrong with him, he was really cute, but just VERY shy - and we had been good friends for most of our childhood... anyway, it was the best kiss EVER for me, because he kissed me exactly the way I liked to be kissed. Too bad it was just a friend thing, because I still remember that kiss... on my mom's back porch swing, in May 1986, one Sunday after church. Yes, I am a heathen. He told me not long ago that his wife says he is a good kisser, so I guess it was worth it!
A good kiss can make a lot of good things happen. A bad kiss - just like a bad first impression, VERY hard to get past, if at all.
** Funny side note - if I told you who he was, some of you involved in north Alabama high school sports would probably know him... heeheehee...