Here's the thing? And I am not trying to start an abortion discussion - I am just commenting on the fact that this will even be a topic of discussion.
Only really extremist women - rabid libs and hard core conservatives - will let a politician's stance on abortion absolutely make or break their vote. Most women are like me - abortion should not be birth control on a whim, but by the same token, I should not be forced by law to endure an unwanted pregnancy, especially in instances of rape, etc. We also know that even with the chance a Pres will have to nominate a SCOTUS justice, the odds of R v W being overturned are slim and none.
Most women like me have bigger worries on their mind - the economy, taxes, national security, etc. Social issues have to take a back seat because of the REAL fucked up problems facing this country. I don't have the luxury of worrying about Ryan's stance on abortion because I care more about his positions on the economy. I am not voting against Obama because of his stance on gay marriage, but because I am too afraid he is going to turn this nation into another Venezuela. It would be nice to be able to narrow it down that much, but you have to choose the candidate you track with MOST of the time. There is no ALL of the time.
When we solve all the other problems that have a direct impact on my own family, then we can address social issues.
So it pisses me off when the extremists on both sides scream loudest about the trivial stuff when it's the real problems that need to be addressed first. Why this was even brought up in the first place also pisses me off. I want to hear Ryan explain his plan for the economy, and now all I will hear for the next week concerning this debate is how he hates women - even though for most women, his pro-life opinion or Biden's derp opinion has ZERO effect on my voting decision.