There's not one single motherfucking soul in this country who did not have access to life saving measures.
I dont know what glass bubble world you live in but you should really get out more. Spend some time in the ghetto.
I owned a furniture store for almost a decade that catered to the "less than" class. I walked in that world every day. They could not be turned away if they took their kid to the emergency room with the sniffles. Which happened hundreds of thousand times a day. Bill? What bill. As Ethel Lee Johnson told me in reference to the stack of medical bills related to her seven children and three grandchildren (none of whom had or had ever had a job) "all you got to do is send 'em a dollar a month. They can't do shit about it"
Instead she spent the government disability (down in her back) checks, her welfare money and her kids 'crazy checks' with me... buying big screen TVs, stereos, VCRs, dining room sets, bed room sets, glass and brass etarges, lamps, freezers and other shit.
So don't even try to tell me people couldn't get care. There's a difference between being uninsured and being denied care.
You're conflating two concepts: health insurance coverage and access to healthcare. Since we were talking about the first in this thread, this quote is exceedingly wrong:
Before the shit show that was "Obamacare" there was no healthcare crisis. Nobody was doing without.
Millions were uninsured and "went without", using our ERs as primary care facilities (which, thanks to EMTALA, they could do). THAT was our healthcare crisis. Rather than having access to routine preventative care, every sniffle and sneeze presented to the ER where they were federally mandated to be seen and stabilized before anyone was allowed to inquire as to their ability to pay.
The rest of your post is information I'm familiar with: my first job out of law school was as counsel for the largest ER physicians' group in GA. I helped with their hospital and managed care contracting, but the bulk of my job was supervising a team of 15 collectors and a skip-tracer trying to track down all the real people behind the fake names given at the metro-ATL emergency rooms. On a good month, our collections success rate was around 3%.
THAT was our healthcare crisis, because those uncollected bills were passed along to other, paying patients (more often those patients' insurance) in the form of higher average billing to absorb those costs.
I totally agree with GH that costs are the main problem and the bulk of the blame for the that component should rightfully be laid at the insurer's feet.
The ACA was not a panacea, and I don't believe it was intended to be. That said, it got coverage for millions who did not previously have access. Those millions COULD get routine, preventative care and forestall major medical calamities that would wreck not only their household finances permanently, but would, in the aggregate, continue to pull our healthcare system deeper into a morass populated by two camps: those who pay and those who don't. The ACA at least moved people towards having everyone's skin in the game and, on a long enough timeline (long enough for the health of the previously uninsured to hit a status quo of relative "good health") the risk-pooling would have stabilized the premiums.
The short-term effects for many people were painful and, since all politics are local, the ACA got a bad rap. It's not a perfect plan, but there are the beginnings of some very helpful reforms built in. It should be tweaked, but a "repeal/replace" course of action only creates more cost and confusion in the short-term and loses sight of the long term goals contained therein.
Now to GH's question: what do I want? I want single-payer for everyone (with an opt-out provision: if you can afford private care/insurance, then go for it). Every single citizen of the United States (and visitors on valid visas/permits) should have free access to health care. If we are the greatest country in the world, we must lead by example and take care of the least of our own. There is more than enough fat in the current health system as well as the rest of the fed budget to accomplish this.
As for this:
pecifically, is it my responsibility to pay for someone else's medical insurance because I made better choices than they did?
It's a garbage argument. Poverty for most isn't a choice.