I am an agnostic in the fact that I have no idea whether god exists or not. I'm not going to deny the existence of god, just like I am not going to say that he certainly exists. I don't have a clue.
I believe that IF there is an "all knowing, all loving" god, like many religions claim, surely he won't send 2/3rd's of the world to hell for not believing in the correct religion. I have no idea which religion is right, or if any of them are right.
If there is a god, I would like to think that I will get into heaven by living a good life and adhering to the golden rule, and other basic rules of humanity.
I am the same way, for the most part. Between being in a fire department, and working at a police department, I see alot of poop; alot of poop dealing with people's lives. I think everything happens for a reason. Sometimes we just don't know for a long time why. If these events are controlled, or guided by, a higher being, I have no idea. I would like to think so. But then again, it could just all be chance and coincidence. I went to church until I was 7 or 8. My parents never made me go, they always gave me the choice. I decided I didn't want to go anymore, so they never forced me to go. I haven't really been back since. I feel that I don't need a church to tell me what to believe, or what I should do. I've read the Bible, and like you, I feel that if the God I have read of does in fact exist, I can't imagine him turning his back on me just because I didn't go to church.
I also do not believe there really is a "right" or "wrong" religion. Believing in this religion will get you to heaven, but believing in that religion will send you to hell. Sorry, I just cannot believe in that. I believe in being a good human being, and that if you follow that general guideline, you will be in good shape.